A college educated, loving, kind-hearted, authentic, smart, funny, feminine woman looking for true friendship, meaningful life, a great career. I’m part introvert, part extrovert–I like being with people just as much as enjoying being by myself. I’m sensitive for sure, but have backbone without a doubt. I feel for you; I feel for me. I’m gentle, yet fierce.
Traveler, explorer, foodie, writer, nature lover, active outdoor enthusiast, dancer, singer. Love exploring museums; art appreciator. I like being in the kitchen–when I want to be– just as much as being outside doing something active. My interests truly are varied.
I’ve never been one to do things just because of group think so to speak, but because I know I want to participate in whatever it is I’m choosing to do. I’ve always asked why, and why not…… Often a lone wolf by choice if I disagree, which doesn’t lend itself to being popular for popularity sake. I’m mostly intrinsically motivated anyway. Curiosity is truly at the heart of who I am. I think it’s literally in my DNA. Contemplative, analytical, sometimes spontaneous; sophisticated, yet down to earth. Not a rhodes scholar, far from a retard….harhar……..Don’t assume you know me from spending little time with me, or ‘put me in’ a box and label me….I don’t fit in any box. Boxes are for keepsakes, not people.
I’ve meet people in my life, who I believe think they know me, based on what I heard them say, how they behaved, assumed they knew why I said something, and labeled me rude or disrespectful to a certain culture. Their perception, obviously….has this person ever heard of cajoling in a devils advocate sort of way, in the spirit of curiosity. Complexity of thought and multidimensional while being succinct, is that rude? If someone is saying something to me assuming my intellect is on one level, when the reality is really it’s on another level is actually being rude to me, Not the opposite, don’t ya think? Look at it from a mathematical perspective, anthropological one, cultural, or historical from whatever set of reality is true for me or them. Too convoluted for you? Three dimensional people are not simple people. Too smug, borderline smug? I don’t appreciate being spoken to as if I was a child, I’m not. I don’t appreciate being spoken to, meaning speak, don’t speak down to me for whatever reason you feel the need to do that. Perhaps you’re offended I’m smarter than you realized? Communicate with me, do not speak at me! There is nothing wrong with my hearing, perception, cognition, or sight—literally or figuratively speaking.
Lover of freedom; I speak my mind, but I certainly understand diplomacy. Part traditional woman, part rebel with a cause. I detest injustices in this world.
Aspiring writer, amateur photographer.
Love meeting new people; however, I distain inauthentic people; I read people really well. People who behave as if they want to be my friend, but then communicate negative things about me–seemingly ‘behind my back’– or say things about me that they don’t know is true or not, especially if I’ve never shared my heart with them, will never be my friend of any sort. Defame me or disrespect me in any way and my patient kind nature will turn like the weather in the springtime. If I don’t have rapport with someone and they pretend to have rapport with me communicating something to get a reaction, they will never have my trust, friendship, or anything else. I make ‘friends’ easily but true friendship is trust, respect, and love personified through action.
I’m a serious person, but I know how to have fun without a doubt, and I laugh an authentic genuine laugh that speaks truth. I can be contradictory for a purpose, or not. Comedy speaks truth through humor from heartbreak, or not.
Communicates well with people from all walks of life, and likes to hear others’ stories, but I also do not compromise my own morals, values, opinions. I’m empathetic, but I don’t suffer fools lightly. I’m a patient woman, but have no tolerance for anyone who cannot look me in the eye.
I hold fast to what I know is true about me in my heart with regard to many topics.
I’ve spoken to many people in my life & can get at the heart of the matter fairly quickly. I have the ability to read between the lines, and ‘see’ someone’s heart. I have no tolerance for inauthentic stupidity, or contrivance of any sort. My perception is incomparable.
I’m really sexually attracted to men, straight men, men who have integrity, kindness, decisiveness, and are manly–he is secure with himself. He needs to know how to treat a feminine woman right.
I’m turned on by deep manly voices, strong hands– a manly man who has a tender kind heart, who knows how to communicate verbally & physically. I will not abdicate my life over to anyone, but will certainly be the loving woman that I am to someone who respects and loves me.
I admire people who speak their mind truthfully through love and light with no hidden agendas. I admire my own strength from experiences, and through God. I’m far from a religious zealot, but believe what I know. If you feel the need to say I’ve lost my mind, go ahead…..you are in fact entitled to your opinion, but I do in fact, have a right to protect my reputation, and I’m entitled through freedom and the grace of God to express myself also. You may dislike or even hate me, go ahead, but you do not have a right to stalk me, defame me, invade my privacy in any way, or contrive negativity stemming from your hateful heart. I will get my point across through all medium to express, and protect my life if I need to.
THAT…..IS……. who I am, and what I know to be true about myself.
